If you are writing about Domination/submission, your Dom is supposed to dominate his or her partner, who submits. Your Dom is the dominant, his/her partner is the submissive. To sum up, Dominate or submit, *a* Dominant or *a* submissive. I know, verbs, adverbs, so confusing. But words, who knew? Not interchangeable.
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