>And by the way? I'm not a satellite that revolves around you. I don't sit in a dark corner till you walk in the door and activate me. I have things to do, that haven't included you for a very long time. It will take some time for me to transfer attention, and you may have to develop some occupations of your own, because it's late in the game to start trying to live in each other's pockets.
Oh, sister, sing it! Preach it loud and proud! When Nic first got laid off, he was making the conscious effort to preempt my cranky fits - as I have said often and often, the contract says better, worse, sickness, health, rich, poor, but not one word about lunch, damnit. He would see me getting irritable; I'm don't generally turn the TV on til night, it drives me bonkers, I'm trying to clean and write and do stuff. After 2 months, he's stopped doing it.
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Date: 2004-04-07 10:19 pm (UTC)Oh, sister, sing it! Preach it loud and proud! When Nic first got laid off, he was making the conscious effort to preempt my cranky fits - as I have said often and often, the contract says better, worse, sickness, health, rich, poor, but not one word about lunch, damnit. He would see me getting irritable; I'm don't generally turn the TV on til night, it drives me bonkers, I'm trying to clean and write and do stuff. After 2 months, he's stopped doing it.
Feh. They need clueing.